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In all communities around the world the birth
of a child is considered a blessing and ceremonies
are held to celebrate this event. Besides being
a natural expression of joy, it also serves a
special purpose, that is, making it known in a
suitable and dignified manner, that the father
has accepted the child as his own and that there
is no doubt or suspicion concerning this matter.
It shuts the door to any mischief that could arise
in the future. As soon as your child is born,
they are under attack from Satan. The Prophet
said,
"When any human being is born, Satan pinches
the body with his two fingers, except 'Isa, the
son of Maryam, whom Satan tried to pinch but failed,
for he touched the placenta instead".
Sahih Bukhari 4:506
This is why the child cries at birth; Satan never
leaves his enemy without harming it. To protect
the faith and Islam of the newborn baby, who is
now under attack by mankind's greatest enemy,
the Messenger of Allah taught us about various
things that we can do. Some are well known others
not so well known.
The following brief points are intended to remind
all people of what the Prophet did when a child
was born.
Saying the Adhan
Abu Raf'I relates that, "I saw the Prophet
saying the adhan of salah in the ear of his grandson,
Hasan, when the child was born to his daughter
Fatima".
This Hadeeth is found in Musnad Ahmad, and authenticated
by Shaikh Abdul Qadit 'Arnoot.
Tahneek
When a child was born to one of the families
of the Sahaba (the Companions of the Prophet)
they would take it to the Prophet so that he would
bless it, and apply the pulp of a date, chewed
by him, to its palate. This 'tahneek' as it is
known in 'Arabic', was to keep the child safe
from evil. Therefore, similarly when a child is
born into a Muslim family, it should be taken
to a virtuous, pious person, so that this person
may supplicate for the child and perform the tahneek.
Tahneek is among those Sunan whose practice has
become rare.
Aisha (RA) narrates that "the people used
to bring their newborn children to the Prophet
and he would bless them and perform the tahneek"
Sahih Muslim 1:560
Aqeeqah & shaving the head
The Aqeeqah ceremony essentially consists of
two acts: the shaving of the hair from the head
of a newborn baby, and the sacrifice of an animal
(these were also characteristic features of Millat-u-Ibrahim,
the religion of the Prophet Ibrahim).
The hair on the child's head is shaven and its
weight in silver is given as charity. An animal
is then sacrificed as a mark of celebration and
distributed amongst friends, family, the poor
and a portion is kept for ones own consumption.
Ali (RA) reported that the Messenger of Allah
slaughtered a goat on the occasion of Hasan's
birth, the son of Fatimha (RA) and Ali (RA) and
said "Oh Fatimah! Shave the head of Hasan
and pay silver equal to the weight of the hair
as charity".
Sahih Sunan at-Tirmithee 2:1226
It is reported by Abdullah bin al-As that the
Prophet said, "To whomsoever a child is born
and he wants to perform a sacrifice of Aqeeqah
on behalf of it, he should sacrifice two goats
for a boy and one goat for a girl".
Sunan Abu Dawood 2:2836
It is reported by Buraydah (RA) "During
the age of ignorance, when a child was born to
anyone of us, we used to slaughter a goat and
smear the child with its blood. Later, after the
dawn of Islam, our practice became (on the advice
of the Prophet) that we sacrifice a goat of Aqeeqah
on the seventh day after the birth of the child,
shave the head of the infant and apply saffron
on it".
Sunan Abu Dawood 2:2137
Tasmiyah (naming the child)
It is from the teachings of the Messenger of
Allah, that each member of the family be given
a good name. Those who ask Allah to give them
children should also ask Allah to make these children
among the followers of the Prophet Muhammad and
adherents to his Sunnah. It is an obligation upon
the parents that their child be given a good name.
Some Ahadeeth indicate that the child is to be
named on the seventh day along with Aqeeqah. However,
the Prophet also named children on the day of
their birth, as proven by other narrations. There
is no harm if the child is named before the seventh
day, but if the naming has not been done, and
then the child should be named on the seventh
day.
Naming a child with a beautiful and honourable
name is very important. The Prophet always chose
names with good and beautiful meanings, even telling
people to change their names if they had unpleasant
meanings.
Narrated by Abu Musa (RA)" a son was born
to me and I took him to the Prophet who named
him Ibrahim, did tahneek for him with a date,
invoked Allah's blessing upon him and returned
him to me.
Sahih Bukhari 7:376
Ibn Umar (RA) reported that Allah's Messenger
said that "the names dearest to Allah are
Abdullah and Abdur-Rahman."
Sahih Muslim 3:5315
Abu Wahab al-Jushamee (RA) who was the Companion
of the Prophet reported him as saying", call
yourselves by the names of the Prophets. The names
dearest to Allah are Abdulla and Abdur Rahman,
the truest are Harith (ploughman) and Hammam (energetic)
and the worst are Harb (war) and Murrah (bitter)".
Sunan Abu Dawood 3: 4140
Narrated Abu Hurayrah (RA). Allah's Apostle said,
"the most awful name in Allah's sight on
the Day of Resurrection will be that of a man
calling himself Malik Al-Amlaak. (king of kings)".
Sahih Bukhari 8:224.
Ibn Umar (RA) reported that Allah's Messenger
changed the name of Aasiyah (disobedient) and
said "You are Jameelah (good and beautiful).
Sahih Muslim 3:5332 & 4747
(This name should not to be confused with Asiya,
the Muslim wife of the Pharaoh)
see Islamic
glossary
Usaman Ibn Akhdari (RA) said, a man called Asram
(harsh, severe, cut off) was among those who came
to the Apostle of Allah. The Apostle of Allah
said "what is your name?" he replied
"Asram" He said "no, you are Zu'rah".
(which means, has been taken or derived from crop,
or to sow seed).
Sunan Abu Dawood 3:4144
Khitan - Circumcision
Narrated Abu Hurayah (RA), I heard the Prophet
saying "five practices are characteristic
of the Fitrah: circumcision, shaving the pubic
hair, cutting the moustache short, clipping the
nails and depleting the hair of the armpits".
Sahih Bukhari 7:779
Allah says in the Qur'an
"Then we have inspired you (O Muhammad)
follow the religion of Ibrahim, the true in faith
and he was not from polytheists"
Surah An-Nahl 16:123
In this verse, the Prophet and his Ummah are commanded
to follow the religion if Ibrahim, therefore it
is known that circumcision is from the religion
of Ibrahim.
Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim have related that.
Abu Hurayah (RA) said that Allah's Messenger
said, "Ibrahim did his circumcision with
an adze (hand tool with a steel cutting blade)
at the age of eighty".
Sahih Bukhari 4:575. Sahih Muslim 4:5844
These wordings are from Sahih Bukhari.
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